“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” – Romans 12:12.
As it sometimes happens, things got a bit worse before they got better. Pete’s wound required a second “open and irrigate” procedure (on Sunday, 7/15) because he continued to have intermittent fevers and pain. We learned the next day of Dr. Lawlor’s recommendation for 4 weeks of IV therapy with antibiotics which requires a long term tunneled IV catheter (also called a peripherally inserted central catheter or PICC line).
We had a small window whereby we might have qualified for a transcontinental interfacility aeromedical transfer (100% paid for by our AirMedCare “Flight Home” Insurance Policy) to complete Pete’s treatment, recovery and rehabilitation within our own healthcare system. Pete transitioned from “unstable for transfer” to “ready for discharge” in a matter of two days. We were unable to firm up our plan quickly enough, and in all honesty, Pete’s recovery will best be served by sticking with his current providers and plan of care. (Any flight soon after surgery, medical or commercial, has risks)
This was a hard pill to swallow at first. We wanted to be home, in California, in our own familiar surroundings and under the care of our own doctors, and we were frustrated with the complications. We had what some may refer to as “Get-Home-Itis.” This condition is known to put blinders on the afflicted. And it doesn’t only occur in healthcare. It can hit anyone, anytime. When one places his/her desire to get home over what is reasonable and safe, bad things can happen. What we perceived as “transfer roadblocks” were better recognized as justifications to slow down and consider what was best for Pete’s health. The providers and staff at the Bone and Joint Institute supported us through the difficult decision to continue care in Connecticut.
We transitioned to a home setting, at Helen’s, with visiting nursing and physical therapy. I was instructed (actually, I was signed off) by the registered nurse to administer Pete’s IV antibiotic and to perform wound care and dressing changes. The physical therapist ensured Pete was using his walker and forearm crutches properly. She designed a program to help Pete regain strength and endurance.
We will be here in Connecticut until IV therapy is completed. Amtrak gave us a full refund for our train tickets. Enterprise extended our rental car contract. Again.
We are so grateful for the love and support of family, and blessed to have all your prayers for healing. Thank you, and keep them coming!
Pete relax and heal. It is too hot for comfort here so just rest.
All things considered, you and Pete are coping well. Pete, your knee looks a little gnarly, though! Thanks for the update, Susan.
Sue and Pete,
I can tell from the photos that Pete felt weak. Kudos to him for not complaining of the pain. I understand his helplessness indeed! Sue, again I admire your ability to call on your own keen instincts and nurse training in opening the knee when you did and in administering to the excellent care of your husband at this difficult time. I’d want you on my medical team for sure! He is a lucky guy to have such an intelligent super wife. I will pray that God brings healing to Pete’s wound and with cautious rehab you will be home soon. Good choice to remain in CT as Auburn is too remote for this type of care. Vallarta is waiting for us so get well soon! God bless you both! Muffie.
Joe and I are sending prayers, hope you heal quickly. Lots of love .
Thanks for the update, Sue – that knee does look a little gnarly and I’m glad you were able to make a clear-headed decision to stay put while this part of Pete’s healing progresses. He has the best nurse possible! “TLC” in every sense of the word! Will add you to our church prayer chain.
Love and prayers – Kathy
Good to hear all the news, we’ve been so worried. Pete, rest and heal. Know that we are thinking of you both and are sure we will see you back home soon.
Sending positive Juju to you both……rough road Pete….you are one of the strongest men I know! You got this!
Looking forward to seeing you guys in California. Till then take care and if anything urgent comes up on the homestead please advise.
Rich “Right Hand Man”
Paddleboard lessons when you guys get back? No? Okay, we can wait.
Heal well, Old Timer!
I hope that you heal well and completely very soon. Keep your spirits up. The loop awaits you next year